There are cultures and races that prefer plus-size women.I’ve had really in-shape guys, bodybuilders even, contact me.It makes such an obvious statement—that no one would ever find me attractive because of my weight.I guess it’s hard to say to somebody, “I have a great girl for you, but she’s fat—are you okay with that? People are image-conscious, and it takes a very secure man to advertise his preference for a woman of size.I had a few boyfriends every summer, and when I got really thin, I suddenly had a boyfriend back at school, too. After that it was back to the old way, and I didn’t have a boyfriend anymore. I was always overweight, but when I got to Vassar I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome.I didn’t gain a freshman 15, I gained a freshman 50.There’s a misconception that plus-size girls are insecure in their bodies.Yes, there have been times I’ve felt uncomfortable at bars because guys talk to my friends and not me, and if I notice a group of men snickering at me, that always makes me upset. When I started on BBW (Big Beautiful Women) dating sites, I got crazy amounts of e-mails.
It was a different world there: Size wasn’t so much of an issue, though there was a hierarchy, with the skinnier girls at the top.Then my dad died when I was 22 and I wasn’t interested in anything anymore. It wasn’t until I was 28 that I decided I wanted to date again, after I got back in touch with people from camp.Some of them were very heavy, but they were married and successful in relationships. I started out on Jdate but worried that maybe people didn’t fully see my body type, even though I never lied or showed a picture that wasn’t me.When it comes to dating BBW, Many prefer to going to online BBW dating sites. Large Large has been offering dating service to BBW / Plus size women since 2002.It's a fast and easy way to get to know a lot of big beautiful ladies. It is an online dating websites that focus on plus-sized daters (also known as Big Beautiful Women or Big Handsome Men) who are serious in seeking plus size friends, dating, relationship and even marriage.